5 Things to Make You a Better, Smarter Retail Shopper

I feel like everyone in the world needs to work a retail job sometime in their lives. Working retail (especially clothing) makes you a better shopper and a better customer. In honor of my three years in retail, I’ve compiled a list of things that everyone who loves to shop should know.

1. Put Things On The Hangers!

This is something even I don’t always do but in the end, the shop-girls will love you all the more for. When you go into the fitting room, taking a look at how the clothes are positioned on the rack or hanger. When you leave the item hanging back up, try and match the way they do it. If you don’t have time, that’s O.K. but it saves everybody time and energy that they could be using elsewhere.

2. Leave It To The Girls

As a little kid, I always went around and tried to put things back on the racks after my mum tried them on. While it’s nice intentions, the shop-girls (or guys) are required to go around the store and correct what you or your son/daugher/ect. put back. It’s nice intentions but whether you realize it or not you are creating more of a hassel. Instead, when you leave the fitting room find a sales worker and give the garment to them or leave the garment on the rack in the fitting rooms.

3. Control the Wild Thing

Kids are the most destructive to a store. Do you absolutely LOVE your Marc Jacobs or Macy’s store so much that when you go shopping you take the kids with you? That’s fine but listen up, when you walk into a store that store does not become a babysitter. We (as sales workers) are not there to make sure that your kid doesn’t hurt himself on the clothing racks or climb up the ladder of books that we created. If you as a parent cannot keep an eye on your kid and cannot control them DO NOT bring them into the store. Besides, wouldn’t you like some kid-free shopping in your future?

4. You Get What You Give

Let’s make one thing clear: we may be there to serve you but if you aren’t going to be nice we are going to get testy as well. If you aren’t a people-person, shop online. You may be having a bad day and that’s fine, we cheerful people will try and make you feel loved and wonderful but don’t take your bad mood out on us. If we don’t have you sales workers are the underlings of retail.

5. READ and Then READ Again.

You walk into your favorite store ever and right in front of you is a huge sign: 50% off Women’s. You get so excited you breeze past it and dive into the clothing. Then you pile your items onto the cashwrap and the sales worker rings it all up. Three hundred and fifty five dollars. You stare in shock. What happened to 50% off? Angry and frustrated you ask the worker what happened to the fifty percent. She/He then sheepishly inform you that under the huge sign is the following tagline: ‘Select Items Only’. Now you’re furious. You vow to never shop there again, dropping a few expletives at the manager as you storm out.

Sound familiar? This is the biggest issue that I have as a retail worker. Customers just don’t read the signs that management has us put out. Stores (especially department stores like Macy’s and import stores like Pier 1) will advertise huge discounts only to have the customer realize (or rather, not realize) that these things are ‘Select Items Only’ or ‘With Purchase of…’. First, it’s O.K. to be mad. The stores do it on purpose. Second, be mad at the right people. The sales workers and even the management have no control over the signs and whether or not you read them. It’s not their fault. It is both you (as the customer that can’t read a whole sign) and the design team who made the signs in the first place.


String Theory photoshoot

So I did a photoshoot about a month back for my studio class. We had to come up with a concentration where we had a central theme and then told a story through that theme. I decided to work on string theory which is the theory that the world is made up of, and connected by, tiny vibrating strings. The first six in the series were to showcase the connections in people’s everyday lives. The second part in the series was to show the abstract side of string theory.

View the entire series on my website AydensGrace Photography

One Connected World

I follow four of the worlds greatest up and coming photographers (at least for me) and recently I’ve had the pleasure of discovering that each one has been interconnected to the other (even though they span many countries).

Such an exciting feeling to discover those little connections!

Below is my proof:

Lara Jade as photographed by Joey L.when she stayed at his home in Brooklyn, N.Y

Lara Jade as photographed by Zhang Jingna when they met in London last October.

” I am especially excited to meet  Joey L.”

– Melissa Rodwell commenting on her trip to Dubai this Feb./March

It is so fun to know that each of these amazing photographers know each other and it inspires me. I know I will be among them one day.

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Found this awesome video whilst browsing my favorite magazine’s website.

Not only is this fantastic for people who don’t like to go out into the cold but also for people who get bored. Like me!

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Felt the need to blog about this!

From the store chains of Urban Outfitters, Free People, and Anthropologie comes Terrain. Terrain is the store for all of us who want to bring a little outdoors indoors.

The stuff is pricey but coming from her sister stores the quality is par-non, the products are interesting and inviting, and most of all look amazing!

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Na’vi Transformation

Na'vi Finished

My new Na’vi Transformation. I learned a lot doing this transformation–it was so awesome!

Did You Know:

Na’vi have only four fingers and toes, whereas the Avatars have five?

Only the Avatar’s have eyebrows.

Na’vi have no stripes near their noses.

Their ‘glow-in-the-dark-freckles’ still glow in daylight, but are dimmed?


Another transformation to come….probably.

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Tail deep into AVATAR

So, I’ve seen AVATAR erm….three going on four times now and I must say, I LOVE IT! The world of Pandora is going to be the next LotR for me. I’ve already started linking into (haha, just realized my own pun) several Na’vi language sites, joined Twitter simply to follow AVATAR’s tweets, and I’m now following the AVATAR blog.


In my searching and web browsing of AVATAR I’d thought I’d pass along somethings.

First, FOX posted the original AVATAR script (With the deleted scenes that rumors say will be on the mid-2010 DVD release) here.

Second, check out the most awesome Avatar creation here on Vimeo.

Third, I’m starting my own Avatar transformation. I’ll post it here when I’m done with it.

Everyone needs to check out AVATAR now!

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Prints Available

Finally! Prints are now available through my Etsy Store.

The following prints are available:


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Life Sucks…

….In more ways then one.

What gives people the right to think that its okay to take and manipulate your images in any way they want, without permission ?

Especially if they are people with whom you’ve worked.

What gives people the idea that if they don’t like the way an image is, then they can consult me on it?

Basically: If you hire me, and don’t like my style. Tell me, get over it, don’t manipulate my images and then act like you didn’t do anything.


Backlog: Behind The Scenes of Smitten

Some behind the scenes for the Smitten Shoot Dec. 6th

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